Wise Relationships

Sometimes we meet a person who we are not quite sure of. Perhaps on some level there is a resonance, a friendship, an attraction. But we may feel somewhat uneasy. Are we really seeing all there is to this person or is there a less pleasant side to their personality that will come out down the track, to our disappointment and dismay? When we have such doubts, about the new boss or colleague at work, the prospective boyfriend or girlfriend, or just a new acquaintance, this essence may help us greatly.

As we take this essence, it takes away the rose-coloured glasses and progressively reveals more reality about the person in question. Really, it does this by revealing to us more about ourselves. It is often because we can’t see ourselves clearly that we can’t see others clearly either. It makes us more sensitive to the subtle energies from the other person towards us, which we were perhaps blocking or unaware of. These subtle energies can sometimes be an indicator, either of trouble brewing or alternatively, of a good, healthy relationship.

Having seen more of the upside and downside of the person and the relationship, we are more able to plot a course ahead. Perhaps the downside we see in the other person is too great for us to go that way. On the other hand, if their imperfections are relatively minor, the relationship might be quite alright, provided of course we can tolerate and accept those unrecognized imperfections within ourselves!